History Repeats Itself

The universe has a funny way of putting you back into the same or similar situation. How often have you left a job, got another just to find that your new boss is near the same as the old one? Or your working in the same area as before? You carry the same or like same position or title? You were hoping this new place and what you have already learned and gained experience in would bring you a better position and yet it hasn't. You get frustrated wanting to to quit even before you get begin. You think, "here I go, I'm going to have to start all over again". Wait before you do let me tell you something. This may be your second or twentieth job. If you take just a moment and think about this and why you keep having to start over. Or do you really start over? In some degree yes you do, at the same time your taking what you have learned and applying it to the new job. Each new job something more to add until you reach the necessary knowledge to move up the ladder. This method of learning is a long and tiresome process. Each time you quit you create a negative ripple. Though you get another job and try again, your starting from the beginning....again. Reach a certain point quit, create that negative ripple and so on. So you see in this example how history repeats until you learn to stick with one job, at least for a longer period of time than you usually do. Would you rather repeat the process and maybe after ten years you get a promotion you could of gotten seven years earlier sticking to one job. This example goes for everything in your life, Relationships, Money, work, every thing.

     Scorpio you are compatible with Cancer. See just how compatible you are and how their opposite sign of Capricorn inspires them.

Cardinal Signs

Are those who have direct relations with that of compass points.

Aries-East

Cancer-North

Capricorn-South

Libra-West

These signs set things in motion, are the start of, put in motion in accordance to their direction and season.

Also those who are self-assured, generally solid, can take a licking and keep on ticking. They are the foundation to the school of hard knocks. You knock them down and they'll get up and thank you for it. Great sense of humor.

Aries

March,21-April,20

Impulsive, enthusiastic, rash, impatient, loving, romantic, idealistic, naive, generous, sporty.

Element-Fire

Those born with this element are the ones who take control, must be recognized, take great pride in what they have accomplished, leaders, the ones to go to when you need to motivate or be motivated, love materialistic objects

Planet-Mars

Sends energy out to make changes and take action. Makes us want to fight for what we value. Initiative, courage, physical strength and stamina.

Health-The head, headaches, migraines, sinuses, hay fever, earaches and eye strains.

For migraine prevention use: fever few, meadow sweet (herbal aspirin),bay ( to help relax and lower blood pressure),black cohosh (also to reduce blood pressure, especially for menstruation times), black haw: for headaches and menstrual cramps. For cluster headaches use: red pepper. For sinuses use: rosemary.

Stone-Diamond

  beauty, strength and positive influence

Aries your opposite sign of Libra has these words for you.

Relationships

Relationships play a major role in our lives. Each variation of a relationship has it's own set of rules. Friendship allows us to hang-out, play, tell our secrets, trust, but no love in the sense of boy/girlfriend. It is a no strings attached relationship. Most friends eventually move apart from each other. You told them everything about you, they know you through and through. What they know about you however is safe because on the same token you know them just as much. The greater importance is not what you learned about them but what you learned from them and they learned from you. Acquaintances are those who occasionally have conversations with you. Generally it is a short relationship but even still there's a great possibility that a quick something that either one of you needs to learn. A chance meeting is someone who approaches you, specifically you with a dilemma that needs immediate help or an answer. Not saying you should become an instant psychiatrist, but giving them a positive answer could be the answer that saves their life and helps them move forward. This chance meeting has happened to me on countless occasions. 

 Aries your compatibility sign is Gemini. See just how compatible you are and how their opposites sign of Sagittarius inspires them.

Cancer

June,23-July,22

         

   Characteristics- Sensitive, imaginative, sentimental, protective, defensive, family-minded, loving, money-minded, tenacious, moody

   Element- water

Deep conversationist, adjusts to the elements around them, sensitive, emotional

  Planet- Mars

instincts, hearth and home, natural habits, feelings and emotions, woman, the mother figure, imagination, common people, water, tides and weather

   Health- picks up on other people’s moods, stomach and breasts.

for cancer prevention use: alfalfa, apple, chapparral, garlic and/or ginseng. For colic use: Coriander, dill, savory, slippery elm. For constipation use: Apple, buckthorn, cascara sagrada, parsley, psyllium, rhubarb, senna, vervain. For diarrhea use: Apple, barberry, blackberry, dill, goldenseal, meadowsweet, mullien, psyllium, rasberry, rhubarb, tea, uva ursa. For gas use: Dill. For nausea use: Ginger. For ulcer prevention use: Chamomile, papaya. For ulcer treatment use: Chamomile, licorice.

  Stone- Pearls

To strengthen the mind,

Moonstone for infertility, new beginnings, insight, intuition. Moonstone is the birthstone for Cancer. Pearls are your star stones.

Cancer you opposite sign of Capricorn has these words of inspiration for you.

This is Me

    Born Jan.15, 1975. Son of Joanne and Benjamin Ealy Sr. at Dale county hospital, Ozark, Alabama. For a reason I haven't learned, my father divorced my mom and left. Raised mostly by my three older siblings and occasionally seeing my mom. My brothers and sister were born of a different father. So that makes me a half blood, an odd ball. At the age of five, it was court ordered that we (except my oldest brother) were placed in foster care. During this time our mother was given one year to get back on track and get us back. For whatever reason she failed to do so. Because of that, I ended up in four foster homes. All but one had abused me in some way or another. One was a drunk man who came home every night and whipped me with a belt. Though he served time, it still seems to not be enough. The other was a married couple. The woman had no business being a foster mom. She stripped me down to total nakedness and put me outside and left me there for what seemed like hours. I suppose it was her idea to teach me not to wet the bed. The third home ended up being the older kids. They were bullies, except they backed up what they said they were going to do. It was here I learned to deal with pain and where I found an intense amount of inner strength. Later we were put on t.v. and newspapers. It was the adoption agencies way of pleading for someone to adopt us. There was a couple who considered it, but realized they didn't have a big enough house for the three of us. Then another family took interest. At this point I became very quiet and shy. I was thinking, here's someone else we’re going to stay with for awhile till we get dumped onto someone else. But no, as it turns out they did adopt us. I didn't really worry about the adoption, when asked if I wanted to be and why my reply was something like," I'm tired of not being with my siblings, if they say yes then I'll say yes just to be with them." And so we were. And I was happy again...Until my brother turned eighteen, graduated from high school and moved away. Memories of us not being together came back and I started acting out. I realized my sister was going to also turn of age and leave too. I was once again going to be all alone. At age thirteen I exploded with anger which lasted till I was seventeen. It was the best birthday I can remember having. Probably because two days later I was heading off to the Florida Sheriffs Boys Ranch. Where I would spend the last two years I had in high school. Though once I left the house I no longer had a home to go to. It was on my birthday something clicked in my brain and I told myself that if I didn't change I was going to end up in prison or dead. There were many times I prayed for help and guidance from God. Many days and nights where I sit in my closet hiding and crying begging him to help me. I didn't receive that help. It was my intention, my will that changed the way I thought and ultimately changed the outcome of my life. Upon arriving to this new place and new school my GPA was 1.7, upon graduating it was 3.8. A change that I made within myself. The day of my graduation, my sister, mom and dad. came to see the miracle. My sister at some point got married. I stayed with her for a short while due to her husband not liking me there. On the verge of living on the street decided to join the Army. Basic training I was loving it. Nineteen years old and had a future. Short lived future because during our longest march my hip had a blow out. Though somehow I passed basic I didn't last long in regular army. My girlfriend at the time ended up cheating on me, I found out six months into the relationship. I broke up with her. Managed to locate my brother. He came and got me, the year was 1995. After a few years of working here and there, got another girlfriend. She wasn't looking to get serious and yet we did. After close to two years and a daughter of hers later. She tells me she had intercourse with someone else the same night we first did. Her daughter could be his. If she didn't cheat on me and didn't break up. I would've been proud to call her daughter mine. She was the sweetest, quietest, most loveable baby I knew. I loved her and she loved me very much. We were a family and I was happy. At this point I was working between my brother and friend installing floors when I met my wife for the first time. I wasn't ready at that time to get involved in another relationship. So I came across as a jerk. Turns out later we came to be anyways. I suppose we were meant to be. Seven years together, six years married and a son that I have no doubt is mine. I'll not ever deny him. She cheats on me. It took three weeks to get her back. I still loved her. A year and another son later, I had a family, I was in love, I was happy....She cheats again. Kicks me out and blames me, and yet I still loved her. It's been three years, my sons are in foster care. On the verge of being adopted. I'm about to lose my family yet again. Talk about history repeating itself. The boys have already been abused and neglected. There is still time to save them, my wife and myself from what's to come. I've tried everything I could think of to get my wife to understand that this is not the way it should be and it'll take both of us to change the outcome. She is very stubborn and yet I still have a love for her. I will always love her no matter what. That was my promise to her and I refuse to break it at least until death do we part. That doesn't mean I won't find somebody else and love them just as much. What's missing in this world is the understanding what love really is. It's more than physical, it's spiritual. To love unconditionally, no matter what.

  Cancer your compatibility sign is Scorpio. See just how compatible you are and how their opposites sign of Taurus may inspire them. 

Capricorn

Dec.22-Jan.19

  Characteristics-

Responsible, practical, self-recognition, shy, pessimistic, conventional, undemonstrative, loyal, excellent sense of humor.

    Element- Earth

Like a rock, stable, consistent, rigid, takes great effort to make them change their mind....once they make it up, practical, patient, reasonable and persistent, self sufficient, needs no recognition.

   Planet-Saturn

All authoritative figures, exams and teachers, economics, time, aging, depression, fear and loneliness.

   Health- Skin Teeth and Bones

For tooth decay use: Chaparral, mints, tea. For leprosy (Hansen's disease) use: Garlic, gotu kola. For hives use: Parsley. For burns use: Aloe, chamomile, comfrey, echinacea, gotu kola, marshmellow, passion flower, St. John's wort, yarrow. For arthritis use: Angelica, black haw, boneset, chamomile, chaparral, echinacea, fenugreek, gentian, ginger, horsetail, juniper, licorice, meadowsweet, St. John's wort, turmeric, vervain, white willow. For acne use: Basil oil.

Stone-Garnet

To attract sexual love or soul mate

  Capricorn your opposite sign of Cancer has these words of inspiration for you.